A cool one!

Lunch with Andrew

Just came back from lunch with Andrew, the always busy man.

Kara-ok with Shi Hui

Shi Hui was on leave yesterday and I met her for Kara-ok.
Probably it was so long that we haven't seen each other, when we were there most of our time spent talking instead of singing.So many stuff to catch up with.

One quite eerie thing happened which Shi Hui told me it was when she was using the toilet, she heard water dripping and someone pulling toilet paper from the next cubicle and she thought somebody must be there. But when she came out from her own cubicle, she found nobody else in the toilet!!!
Eerie right? It's still hungry ghost month man!

After the k-session, we went to have dinner while still continue with our talking as we have so much to talk about. I believe with Hui's perseverance, the future is there waiting for her. Keep it up! You have found a place to land on and bloom.
No fear, be confident. Seize the opportunity.

As for me, once I have the good news I will 'signal" you, ok? Hahahaha!!!

伍家辉 虽然我愿意









我爱你 by 卢广仲

Bak Kut Teh for lunch on a raining day

Yesterday, Rendy,my sister and I went to Geylang to have Bak Kut Teh for lunch.
From our house, we walked there and along the paths we passed we could see many stalls selling fruits, vegetables and also we saw some very old shops.

After few streets, finally we were there. Most of the seats were taken up but luckily we didn't need to wait for so long to have an available table. Moment later, rain poured and slowly it became so heavy that we and some other eaters needed to shift our tables in order not the get wet as we were seated far outside.

We continued with our dining of hot soup while the chilling wind blowing towards us, what a good balance. Hahaha.


It just came to my realization, that am I avoiding the fact that life's good? too good to be true? That I reluctantly accepting the fact that indeed life is good?
I kept "pushing" away the already happy life of mine with the fact that I afraid I might lose it when I realize happiness. I kept telling myself it's not yet the happiest, it can be better.
But what's better than to have a husband who dotes on me a lot? a family that's always being supportive? my in-laws who are very understanding? a place for shelter? and most importantly, freedom even after married.
There might not be forever but who cares about the future if I don't care for today?

Can men live without sex or perhaps, masturbation?

I wonder what will happen if a man's life without sex or masturbation. It doesn't matter you are homo or straight.
Guys, can you imagine your lives without them? What will you become?
I ever read an article saying men think about sex everyday. But won't you get sick of thinking it everyday?
Men always say that women are hard to understand. Vice versus, my curiousness lay on men. Why are guys born to think of sex?

In this materialistic world, there are women whom willing to have sex in return to gain in monetary term. And as for guys, they are willing to pay for sex. Eg. some ladies find it o.k to have sex with men as long as they provide them luxury like vacations, expensive handbags and bla bla bla....
And some guys are so willing to pay that few hundreds or even thousands to just sleep with ladies.

Back to the question, can men live without sex or masturbation? What do you have to say?

劉力揚 - 我就是這樣

So cool!

Saturday spent at Invent Singapore workshops

Yesterday was a whole day spending at Pan Pacific where FOI (Fellowship of Inventors) held Invent Singapore workshops.
Rendy, Joe and I were there before 9am for registration and we were given a full paper bag of goodies. Inside are the products from local inventors.

For the whole day we were there for the conference and also workshops which I find them interesting and very informative. During a forum, I especially enjoyed *Dr. Ting's humorous speech and *Dr. Kirpal Singh's narrative speech.
*Intro: Dr Ting Choon Meng; President of Fellowship of Inventors and whom invetend Bpro, radial pulse wave acquisition Device.
*Dr. Karpal Singh, Director of Wee Kim Wee Centre, SMU whom is an international creativity guru and sought-after speaker.

As a whole, I would like to congratulate FOI for the successful event held. Bravo!

For more info on FOI, please visit: www.fellowshipofinventors.com

張懸 寶貝-Zang Xuan, Bao Bei

Simple soothing song


Lunch with Stella, night movie with Rendy

Today, I met Stella for lunch at Hans. We both ordered beef, hers was beef steak and mine was beef noodle. After the lunch, I went to Body Shop (I am a supporter of Body Shop) at PS to buy a concealer, as my pimple scars on my face need to be covered.
After that I went home and took a nap.
Then in the evening, I met up with Rendy at Marina Square to watch "Meet Dave" stars Eddie Murphy. It's just a simple funny relaxing movie. When the movie ended, we proceeded to have our dinner and went home.
When on the way home, my husband told me that these few weeks he found that I've changed. I have became one who is more considerate and calmed down. In fact, I myself feel that I have became more peaceful and understanding. Most importantly, peace and harmony. Now I realize what's the meaning of "thing happens with a reason". If the incident never happened, I would had been still being childish and impulsive. As Chinese has a saying, if you never lose how do you gain?
Taken at our study room.

Me, typing my blog.

Motivational Speech by Apple CEO, Steve Jobs


"Don't lose faith. I'm convinced the only thing that kept me going was that I love what I did. You've got to find what you love and that's a truthful work as it is to your lovers."
Your work is going to fill large part of your life and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work and the only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you haven't found it yet, keep looking and don't settle. You'll know when you find it, and like any great relationship they just get better and better as the years go on.So, keep looking, don't settle."

"Your time is limited so don't waste it living someone else's life. Have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They some how already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary."

"Stay hungry, stay foolish."

The Don't Quit Poem

On S'pore National Day 2008

9 August 2008 was Singapore National Day. Rendy and I went to his boss' house for a small gathering.

Shi Hui, a petite young lady with strong heart.

Shi Hui, a lady who is 2 years younger than me. But I bet I am not any stronger than her.
2 years ago her mother passed away and she misses her mother a lot. She does not show her sadness easily as she does not want others to worry about her.
I only seen her crying a few times when there are no others around. I bet she cries alone at night. If I were her, I would have collapsed. Nothing beats losing a mother. My miscarriage and pre-diabetes condition are nothing. Dilemma to work or to stop is nothing too compare to losing a mother.
I have wanted to tell her that she is a very strong young lady. A strong one.

Last Tuesday night, I mentioned to her my fear of not working and staying at home.
She talked to me and I felt much better after that. Thank you, Shi Hui.

Kelly, the strong woman.

Kelly is one of my good friends. She is my ex-colleague from China Insurance (S) Pte Ltd, when I was there she took good care of me. Even now, she cares for me too.
Ever since I stop working, I stay at home most of the time. Reason being? I have no time, I have to get pregnant before it's too late. My gynae advised me to get conceive ASAP.
But I was in a dilemma. To work or to stop? To continue or to rest to have child? There are people who don't understand it. They might think that why not do the both at the same time? Do you really need to quit? You don't understand if you were not in the situation. So, don't do assumption and judge. I hate it.
Finally, I couldn't hold it and I told my friend, Kelly. Her words really made me to have a clearer picture what I should do and more confirm with what I should do.

I want to post the messages she sent to me to remind myself, simple yet powerful to a person was in dilemma like me.

"Since Rendy is so supportive.... You guys can tight over this period. Worrying here and there will bring you to nowhere....that's even worse".
"Once you have made up your decision, just do it. Go forward no matter what the outcome is. Tell yourself don't look back. Don't regret. Everything will be over soon. You can make it if you have a will."
"Even the whole world deny you also never mind, don't bother what others think and said. Just believe in yourself."

A crying night

Last week, there was a night I cried non stop and loudly. I felt very down. Cried and cried...
I was very unhappy.

Ex-colleague, Yatie

Last Friday, I was at Dhoby Ghout exchange and I suddenly saw a familiar lady pulling her small luggage. Oh, it's Yatie, my ex-colleague. She is a kind lady.
I was happy to see her again. We chatted for a while, catching up of our latest update. Her birthday is around the corner and she was going to chalet for celebration. That's great, isn't it?
For this kind lady, I wish you all the best and healthy always!

BBQ @ East Coast

Last Friday, Rendy, my sisters, my niece & I held a BBQ gathering at East Coast. Rendy invited his friend, Clive to come along too. It was just a small gathering.

Actually we wanted to hold it on Saturday but too bad it was fully booked. Since I am not working, I suggested we hold it on Friday and I could prepare food. So, there were chicken wings, hot dogs, Taiwanese sausages, fish, prawns, tomatoes, man tou, lamb chop and my younger sister helped to fry bee hoon.

After my sisters and Rendy knock off, we all proceeded to East Coast. When we reached there, I felt a sense of freedom. My sisters enjoyed the breeze from the sea and of course, the sound of wave. The horizon of the sea was beautiful, there were many big ships that night.

Setting up fire? Of course the guys did it, Rendy & Clive. With the help of fire starter, they managed to set up the fire in minutes, bravo!

We all took turn to grill the food and everyone enjoyed it.